Umm Khadija
Often the greatest sources of the downfall of mankind stems from his or her vanity and pride. From sisters comparing their clothing to scholars comparing their students and achievements, Shaytan’s most common trick is to delude a person into believing they are better than the others. It is important that such pride be routed out of our hearts for as per the Hadith of the Prophet
, a person with an atoms-worth of pride shall not enter Jannah. The example below truly exemplifies how pride should be recognised and dealt with.
An incident occured with the student of the great Companion Ali (radhialla’anhu), the renowned ascetic, Imam Hasan al-Basri (Rahimahullah).
One day on the bank of the River Dajla he found a man seated with a young lady and a bottle of wine in front of him. A thought crossed his mind, “how depraved is this man! Would that he were like me.” Just then a boat appeared in the river at a little distance from him, and gradually began to sink in deep water. That man immediately jumped into the water and of the seven men in the boat who were drowning, he saved six and then looking towards Hasan he said, “if you are superior to me, then in God’s name save the seventh man. You save only one man, whilst I have saved six.” Hasan could not do so. The man then addressing Hasan said, “sir, this woman seated by my side is my mother, and this bottle contains water. This scene was enacted to put you to test.” Hasan fell on his feet and said, “just as you have saved six people, save me also from drowning in the waters of pride and vanity.” He replied, “may God fulfil thy desire!” Hasan felt that his desire was fulfilled. Since then he became so humble that seeing a dog one day he remarked, “O lord! for the sake of this virtuous dog, accept me as thy slave.“
(Attar, Fariduddin (1993) Tadhkirat ul-Aulia [Memoirs of the Aulia] (Muhammad Ashraf:India) 12-13)
This incident highlighted the pride in his heart and marked a turning point for him to the extent that a person once asked him, “how do you feel?” Hasan al-Basri (rahimahullah) replied,
“I am like a person in the midst of the sea whose boat is shattered and he is floating in the waters.”
(ibid. 15)
He reduced himself to nothing such became his humility.
May Allah
remove all the diseases from our hearts and may He make us humble before Him. Ameen.


